Monday, October 19, 2026

THE GOSPEL … based on John 3:16







Worship In The Pavilion




THE GOSPEL



… based on John 3:16



How many of you are familiar with Rollen Stewart? …

You might not know him by name, but I’m sure you all have seen him.

Rollen was a full-time spectator at sporting events. 
 He traveled over 60,000 miles every year. You could see him at baseball’s All-Star game & World Series. 
 He was at the NBA finals & the summer Olympics. He attended the Masters golf tournament at Augusta, GA; the Kentucky Derby in Louisville; & the Indianapolis 500. 
 He was at the Super Bowl,& in fact, all the significant football games. 

 Does that help identify him? …

Well, if you watch sports with any regularity, you’ve seen him.


Rollen was the 1st, of now a legend of many, that have become a stable fixture at athletic events, who hold up a sign with “John 3:16” on it. And as a result, I suspect that it has become the most well-known reference in the Bible. And it’s what we’re going to talk about this morning.


Good News, as recorded by John, to us who have gathered at the pavilion in downtown Nashville. Within our hearing comes the Word of the Lord …


For God loved the world so much that he gave his only son, so that everyone who believes in him may not die but have eternal life. (John 3:16)


“The grass withers & flowers fade, 
but the word of our God endures forever.” (Isaiah 40:8)


May the Lord grant that we may engage in contemplating the mysteries of His Heavenly wisdom with really increasing devotion, to His glory and to our edification. Amen

It’s a common thing to say that God loves us. “God loves you, & so do I.”

But most people who think that fail to recognize that it’s only because of Jesus Christ that we can totally understand that concept.


I mean, it’s not because of nature that we know that God loves us.

Now certainly, when we have terrific weather, we’re thankful to God for that. But at times we have gloomy, overcast skies. And there are floods, & droughts, & tornadoes, & hurricanes, & earthquakes to contend with.


And then, there’s the beauty of creation.

Many of us have visited some incredible places in our country & throughout the world that have just taken our breath away. If I close my eyes & think about places that have done that for me, 4 immediately come to mind:

Berchtesgaden in Germany

Killarney National Park in Ireland

Lake Louise in Alberta, Canada

& Theodore Roosevelt National Park in ND

And I’m certain that you have your own list.


But even as I say that, there are also some barren, wretched places on this planet. The desert in eastern CA is called Death Valley for a reason.

The same is true about the Dead Sea. Think about Siberia.

No one goes there for a vacation.

And then we’ve all witnessed magnificent sunrises & sunsets.

I’ll be honest with you; I’ve lived a lot of places. I’ve lived in Key West,

which is known for its’ sunsets, but we have some truly beautiful ones here in Brown County. We stare at them & wish that they’d last for hours instead of just a few brief moments.

How about a clear night sky that’s filled with stars?

The Psalmist proclaimed …

“How clearly the sky reveals God’s glory!” (The Psalms 19:1)


Each of those things, & dozens more, help us to really appreciate

God’s creative genius.

So, nature & our world tells us something about God’s creation …
but not necessarily reveal God’s love.

We know that God loves us because He’s given us His Son to be crucified for us, to take our punishment for our sins, & that act brings us back into fellowship with Him.

“This is what love is: it is not that we have loved God, but that he loved us & sent his Son to be the means by which our sins are forgiven.” (1 John 4:10)

That amazing love is God’s greatest gift.

It’s through Jesus that we know God’s love … & love God.

And please understand what that means … God has initiated what’s necessary for us to have a personal relationship with Him.

I find this absolutely mind blowing. Almighty God, who is holy, (Isaiah 6:3) wants so much to have a relationship with me/us, who are sinful, (The Psalms 51:5) that He has given His Son to save us!


I’m handing out something that I saw a # of years ago. It’s called

“Christ – The Greatest Gift.” It’s the words of John 3:16 horizontally:

God … the greatest lover

loved so much … the greatest degree

the world … the greatest company

that he gave … the greatest act

his only Son … the greatest gift

so that everyone … the greatest opportunity

who believes … the greatest simplicity

in him … the greatest attraction

may not die … the greatest promise

but … the greatest difference

have … the greatest certainty

eternal life … the greatest possession




Have you ever, stopped to truly appreciate God’s greatest gift to you … the gift of Jesus Christ? … This morning we’re going to look at some of the reasons why He is the greatest gift & why we should believe in Him, & why we must be thankful for Him.

The 1st reason is … Jesus is the best that God had to give.

God loved the world so much that He gave the very best.

That’s obvious from the word “only” (μονογενῆ) that’s used to describe Jesus in our Scripture lesson … “God’s only Son.” The word means “unique.”

Jesus is the unique Son of God. There’s no one else like Him!

There’s no one who is His equal. He’s one of a kind.

The very nature of love is to give the best & not hold back … & the greater the object of love … the costlier the gift. “Any old thing” isn’t good enough.

So, when God gave Jesus, He gave the very best “gift” in the universe. (Romans 6:23)

God also gave the best gift in another sense. For Jesus isn’t just a creature made in the image of God as you & I are. (Genesis 1:26) …

He is God in the flesh.

“Christ is the visible likeness of the invisible God.” (Colossians 1:15)


“The Word became a human being &, full of grace & truth, lived among us.”  (1 John 1:14)


Consequently, when God gave Jesus … He gave Himself. (John 10:30)


One of my professors at G.C.T.S. was also a professional counselor.

One day in class he shared about a couple who were having marital difficulties. There was much bitterness & hardness, & a lack of understanding between them.

At one point the husband spoke up in obvious exasperation …

“I’ve given you everything. I’ve given you a new home. I’ve given you jewelry. I’ve given you a new car. I’ve given you ….” And the list went on & on & on.

And finally, when he ended his tirade, his wife quietly responded …

“that’s all true, John. You’ve given me everything … but yourself.”

We listen to that & we understand what’s being said. The greatest gift that anyone can give is themselves. And we know, from experience, that’s true.

The 2nd reason why Jesus Christ is God’s greatest gift is because this wasn’t a snap decision. It was planned “before the beginning of time.”

(Titus 1:2) God has always intended to give Jesus.

“He gave us this grace by means of Christ Jesus

before the beginning of time.” (2 Timothy 1:9)

This is why so many passages in Scripture

deal with God having put Jesus to death.


The prophet Isaiah records words of God about the crucifixion 8 centuries before it took place! He wrote … “The LORD says, ‘It was my will that he should suffer; his death was a sacrifice to bring forgiveness.”  (Isaiah 53:10)

Peter also recognized this truth. On the day of Pentecost, he proclaimed …

“In accordance with his own plan God had already decided that Jesus would be handed over to you; & you killed him by letting sinful men crucify him.”

(The Acts 2:23)


Don’t ever think that when sin came into the world through Adam & Eve (Romans 5:12) that it caught God by surprise. Or that it caused God to go back to the drawing board to figure out what He could do to correct it.

Jesus was not “Plan B”.

God knew what would happen “even before the world was made.” (Ephesians 1:4)

Consequently, before He set the universe in motion, before He created human beings, God had determined to send Jesus to die for our salvation.  (1 Corinthians 2:7)

Maybe the best way to understand all of this is found in the story of Abraham, when God calls him to offer up his son, Isaac, on Mt. Moriah. I believe Jesus was referring to that event when He told the Jews of His day

… “Your father Abraham rejoiced that he was to see the time of my coming; he saw it & was glad.”(John 8:56)

It was through that test that Abraham learned that God was going to give Jesus to be our Savior.

But for us to understand the story properly, we must begin by remembering that Abraham was an old man when God came to him & told him to offer Isaac. He was 86 years old when his 1st son, Ishmael, was born to Hagar, his wife, Sarai’s, personal slave, (Genesis 16:15-16)

& he was 100 years old when Sarah gave birth to Isaac.

Now the story takes place when Isaac is a young man …

& Abraham loves him very much. The 2 of them have had a # of years to build a relationship. There was a bond of trust between them.


Abraham loved him, not only because he was the son of his old age, the result of a miracle, but also because he was the son of God’s promise. “Your own son will be your heir. … Look at the sky & try to count the stars; you will have as many descendants as that.”
(Genesis 15:4-5)

So, here’s Abrahm enjoying his son Isaac …

believing that God is going to bless him with an abundance of grandchildren. And then God calls out …

“‘Abraham!’ And Abraham answered, ‘Yes, here I am!’”

(I’m guessing that he’s expecting something good, another of God’s blessings, is coming.)

“Take your son … your only son, Isaac, whom you love so much, & go to the land of Moriah. There on a mountain that I will show you, offer him as a sacrifice to me.” (Genesis 22:1-2)

Okay, let’s be honest, this is not something that you or I would give even the slightest consideration to.

In fact, it seems absolutely barbaric to us, doesn’t it?

… But once again, we need to put ourselves into the mindset of that society.

Human sacrifice was commonplace for all other religions. It was simply something that was accepted & done … no questions asked.

Even so, I can’t even begin to imagine how this must have tested Abraham’s faith … or the struggle he had to have gone through that night.

But, however deep it was, by morning the Abraham that emerged from his tent was a man committed to obedience. Scripture records …

“Early the next morning Abraham cut some wood for the sacrifice, loaded his donkey, & took Isaac & 2 servants with him. They started out for the place that God had told him about.” (Genesis 22:3)

On one level, Abraham’s test concerned his commitment. Was God really everything to him? (Luke 14:26)

Or was something else … even God’s gift … Isaac?

Abraham’s victory was that he didn’t put the gift before the Giver. “Isaac” represents all the many things that have become quite precious to us. And the reality is … (& this is what you need to get today, this is your takeaway) … we can do without “Isaac”, but we can’t do without God.

Let me repeat that. We can do without “Isaac” (whatever that is for you) … but we can’t do without God.

But this was also a spiritual test. God had told him that the blessing wouldn’t come through Ishmael, the son of a slave woman, but rather, through a miracle,

his son Isaac. And now, God tells Abraham to sacrifice Isaac. Abraham had to have struggled with this.

Isaac is God’s promise, for heaven’s sake.

And God has shown him time after time that He won’t send the blessing through anyone else. Now, God tells Abraham to sacrifice Isaac, to put him to death!

How can this be? … If he obeys the command, how can God fulfill His promise? How can God do it? …

The puzzle was real, the mental & emotional anguish deep. But then the answer came. The God who caused Isaac’s birth through a miracle was capable of doing another miracle … bringing him back from the dead! That’s the solution that Abraham discovered during that long desert night. …

(I love this! This is good stuff!)

So, the next morning, as Abraham heads for the mountain, he’s thinking … “we’re going to see a miracle!

There’s going to be a resurrection!”

Now I’m not just guessing about this … it’s what happened. The Scriptural story proves it. As Abraham arrives at his destination, he tells his servants …

“Stay here with the donkey. The boy & I will go over there & worship, & then we will come back to you.”

(Genesis 22:5) Did you hear what he said? …

“Isaac & I are going over there to worship, to offer the sacrifice … & then we, me & Isaac, will come back to you.”

Now in the book of Hebrews, we find the N.T. commentary to this story, & the writer echoes this understanding. This is the “faith chapter” where we read of those who demonstrated great trust in God.

“It was faith that made Abraham offer his son Isaac as a sacrifice when God put Abraham to the test. Abraham was the one to whom God had made the promise, yet he was ready to offer his only son as a sacrifice. God had said to him, ‘It is through Isaac that you will have the descendants I promised.’ Abraham reckoned that God was able to raise Isaac from death – &, so to speak,

Abraham did receive Isaac back from death.” (Hebrews 11:17-19)


This means that Abraham was expecting a resurrection. He went up the mountain, as God had commanded, & there tied Isaac to the altar.

“Then he picked up the knife to kill him.’’ (Genesis 22:10)

And he would have … but God intervened.

God provided a substitute; a ram caught in the bushes.

“The LORD called to him from heaven, ‘Abraham, Abraham!’” (& remember what I’ve told you … when a name is repeated in Scripture it’s a sign of deep affection.) “Abraham, Abraham! … Don’t hurt the boy or do anything to him. … Now I know that you honor & obey God, because you have not kept back your only son from him.’” (Genesis 22:11-12)

Now Abrahm was only called upon to offer his son.

But when the time came for God to offer His Son,

the hand that was poised above Jesus fell. (Luke 23:46) God put His Son to death. God’s greatest gift was given.

The 3rd reason why Jesus is the greatest gift is that He meets our needs. We need to have knowledge of God … Jesus answers that need. Do you want to know what God is like? … Look at Jesus. (John 14:9)

By the way, this is one of the reasons why Jesus is referred to as “the Word” in John’s writings. If we really want to know what God is like … we’re going to find the answer in the pages of this Book.

2ndly, we need a Savior. We need more than simply knowledge about God. We’re sinners. Consequently, we not only need a sure word from God … we need a Savior.

“Help! I’m drowning. I need someone to save me.”

Jesus died to save us. (Romans 5:8)

Finally, we have needs that are part of life.

Psychiatrists tell us that we face 3 unsolvable dilemmas. The 1st is life vs. death. We want to live … but we all die. Jesus solves that by giving eternal life to all who believe in Him.


“I am the resurrection & the life. Those who believe in me will live, even though they die.” (John 11:25)


And then there’s the dilemma of our individuality

& fitting into a group. Jesus has broken down all the walls making us totally new persons.


“But now, in union with Christ Jesus you, who used to be far away, have been brought near by the blood of Christ. For Christ himself has brought us peace by making Jews & Gentiles one people. With his own body he broke down the wall that separates them.” (Ephesians 2:13-14) We now belong to one another.


And 3rd is the dilemma coming from aspirations

& achievements. We all fall short of what we hoped to be. We have regrets. Jesus is the answer to this problem also, for He promises to make us all that God created us to be in the 1st place.

He sets us “apart to become like his Son.” (Romans 8:29)

Simply put, Jesus is the answer to all of our needs: physical, mental, emotional, relational, & spiritual.

“He is our shelter & strength, always ready to help in times of trouble.” (The Psalms 46:1)

And I suspect most of you can give testimony to that.

Some years ago, in Pittsburgh, PA there lived a wealthy executive & his wife. Douglas Ferguson was a senior V.P. for Bethlehem Steel. He & his wife, Ann, had a good life & seemed to have everything, but … they didn’t have any children.

They were a Godly couple, & prayed & prayed for a child. And one day, after many years,

Ann found herself expecting. The couple was ecstatic!

But tragedy struck during the delivery. Ann died giving birth to their son. Well, from that moment on,

Doug devoted his life to his son; they were inseparable.

But again, tragedy struck. When the boy was 12,

he developed a rare bone disease & within a matter of weeks, died. Doug was devastated, & sadly,

passed himself a short time later, his family believed … of a broken heart.

Since he was a wealthy man, the extended family gathered to divide the estate, but because the will couldn’t be located, it was turned over to the courts.

There was a nurse/nanny, however,

who had cared for the boy throughout his life.

The family received permission to offer her something as a remembrance in appreciation for her commitment to the boy. At 1st she declined, but then said she’d like to have the painting of the boy that was hanging in the living room.

Her request was granted. And when the painting was taken down, they found an envelope taped on the back. When the envelope was opened, they found Douglas’ notarized will, which was only 2 sentences …

“This is my one & only dear son.

Whoever takes him receives all my wealth.”

My friends, that’s the message of the Gospel.

God, our Heavenly Father, has given His greatest gift, His dear Son, His unique Son, His only Son …

& the promise is that whoever believes in Jesus, whoever comes to faith in Him, whoever takes Him … will receive God’s “wealth”.


“For God loved the world so much that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him may not die but have eternal life.” (John 3:16)


For God loved _______ so much that He gave His only Son, Jesus, so that if _______ believes in Jesus,  _______ will have eternal life.




MARANA THA


Monday, October 12, 2026

FRAGILE: HANDLE WITH CARE … based on Philippians 1:27-2:4

 


Rande-Pastor

FRAGILE: HANDLE WITH CARE


… based on Philippians 1:27-2:4



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A young man’s fiancé had broken off their engagement, 

but a couple of months later he received the following letter from her.


Dearest Jimmy,

No words could ever express the great unhappiness I’ve felt since breaking our engagement.  Please say you’ll take me back.  No one could ever take your place in my heart, so please forgive me.  I love you!  I love you!  I love you!  

Yours forever, Margie

P.S. congratulations on winning the lottery


We’re going to talk about relationships this morning.

And as we’re thinking about them, we need to keep Jesus’ words in mind … “And now I give you a new commandment: love one another.  

(& say the rest with me) As I have loved you, so you must love one another.

If you have love for one another, 

then everyone will know that you are my disciples.” (John 13:34-35)


Now the key word in that command is “must.”  This is not an option.

We must love one another.  Keep that in mind as we consider today’s topic about relationships … “Fragile: Handle With Care.”


Listen now to Good News from Paul, to the Church in Philippi, 

& to Bear Creek Church.  Within our hearing comes the Word of the Lord …


Now, the important thing is that your way of life should be as the gospel of Christ requires, so that, whether or not I am able to go and see you, I will hear that you are standing firm with one common purpose and that with only one desire you are fighting together for the faith of the gospel.  Don’t be afraid of your enemies; always be courageous, and this will prove to them that they will lose and that you will win, because it is God who gives you the victory.  For you have been given the privilege of serving Christ, not only by believing in him, but also by suffering for him. …


Your life in Christ makes you strong, and his love comforts you.  You have fellowship with the Spirit, and you have kindness and compassion for one another.  I urge you, then, to make me completely happy by having the same thoughts, sharing the same love, and being one in soul and mind.  

Don’t do anything from selfish ambition or from a cheap desire to boast, but be humble toward one another, always considering others better than yourselves.  And look out for one another’s interests, not just for your own. 

(Philippians 1:27-29; 2:1-4)


“May my words & my thoughts be acceptable to you,

O LORD, my refuge & my redeemer!” (The Psalms 19:14)


May the Lord grant that we may engage in contemplating the mysteries of His Heavenly wisdom with really increasing devotion, to His glory and to our edification. Amen


God has created us to have relationships. (Genesis 2:18)

We can have a relationship with Him, (Philippians 1:21) & we have relationships with other people. (1 John 1:7) However, since the fall of Adam & Eve … sustaining relationships has been a struggle between human being & human being, (Romans 1:28-32) & between human beings & God. (1 John 1:6)


One of the biggest causes for unhappiness in our life is when our relationships become broken.  Conflict kills happiness.  

It’s a daily struggle to live in a world where there’s no contention.

Whether it’s nation against nation, or family member against family member, living conflict-free with others is a constant struggle.


To have a successful business, employees must get along & work together.  To have a successful football team, the Colts must play as a team, 

(but I hope not quite as well as the Steelers today).  To have a successful government Republicans & Democrats must cooperate across the aisle.

To have a successful Church we must all work together.  

No one can do it alone. (1 Corinthians 12:14)

When there is unity there’s tremendous power, & the potential is unlimited.  The problem is … people don’t always get along.  Have you noticed that? …


Relationships are fragile; & need to be handled with care.  History proves that repeatedly.  And Scripture provides some classic illustrations.


For example, we have Cain & Abel.

Here one brother kills the other rather than face the fact that he was wrong. (Genesis 4:8) One man destroys another because of jealously & envy.  

Cain is a picture of what all of us are by nature.” (Titus 3:3)


Jacob & Esau weren’t any better;

always trying to get something from the other one.  They were continuously using one another for their own selfish desires. (Genesis 25:29; 27:35)


But there’s a conflict in the N.T. that most of us aren’t familiar with.

It’s between 2 women: Euodia & Syntyche of Philippi. (Philippians 4:2) 

How many of you have heard of them? …


We don’t know a lot about them, but some things are obvious.  

They had been good friends.  They had worked together in establishing the Philippian Church.  They had shared in the ministry of the Apostle Paul.  

But now they were at “war” with each other.


Paul knew that a conflict not settled is a conflict that will spread.  

Sooner or later others will be drawn in.  Sides will develop.  

And what started out with just 2 people will divide a whole Church.  Remember this … a quarreling Church is no Church at all, 

for it’s one from which Christ has been shut out.


And Paul’s concerned about that.  He doesn’t want the “cancer” of their conflict to spread.  His practical answer is to bring the issue out into the open, & get the people in the Church is respond “Christianly.” (Colossians 3:13) 

He doesn’t want this thing to go on another day.


Just as a sidelight; it’s a grim thought that all we know about Euodia 

& Syntyche is that they were 2 women in a Church who were quarreling!  It makes me reflect … how will I be remembered?  Suppose our life was to be summed up in a single sentence … what would that sentence be? …

Euodia & Syntyche are simply remembered as disrupters of peace.  

Suppose we were to go down in history with 1 thing known about us …

what would that one thing be? …


Now Paul doesn’t want this issue to continue.  It’s destructive.  

Nothing good can come from it.  And as a Pastor,

I’ve learned that Paul was right.  We know that marital conflict that isn’t dealt with will lead to a breakup.  An argument can end a friendship.  

A disagreement between 2 factions will divide a Church.

That’s what conflict does.  It spreads & it splits.


Understanding that, Paul spends a good portion of his Philippian letter dealing with relationships.  And he basically says 3 things: 

  • Relationships are a #1 priority

  • Relationships are very delicate

  • Relationships will be rewarded


As followers of Jesus, 

we cannot waste time & energy fighting with one another.  Paul writes …

“The important thing is that your way of life 

should be as the gospel of Christ requires.”


As I was studying this passage, I discovered that the word “requires” (ἀξίως) that’s used here was a term usually found in the marketplace.  

The merchants would weigh things on a scale.  On one tray were the weights,

& on the other the item being purchased.  When they balanced, both the merchant & the buyer were receiving a fair price.  

The item bought was “required” to equal the weights on the other side.


Paul wants us to understand that as followers of Jesus,

we’re to live so that our lifestyle balances with the Gospel.  Our lives are “required” to meet a certain standard.  How we relate to others is important.


Okay, so what is the Gospel? (1 Corinthians 15:1-8) …

It’s the Good News about Jesus. (John 3:16) It’s the knowledge that we are loved by God, & that He has begun to do a good work in us. (Philippians 3:3-6) And as a result, we must live out the love that we have experienced. (Mark 12:29-31)


This is exactly what John writes in his letter.  

“Dear friends, let us love one another, because love comes from God.  Whoever loves is a child of God & knows God.” (1 John 4:7)


It’s sad, but using this example of the scales, we recognize that many people in the Church today are “lightweights.”  Paul wants to correct that, 

& the way he does it is through our relationships.

“I will hear that you are standing firm … & that … you are fighting together.”  (Listen to this Euodia & Syntyche.)  We’re not battling each other, 

but we’re fighting together our common enemy, the Devil. (1 Peter 5:8)


Paul wasn’t primarily concerned about Church growth or Church programming or even Church doctrine.  The 2 things that he’s stressing here are … “fighting together for the faith,” & not being “afraid of our enemies.”


Let’s look at the 1st one.  How should they (we) fight together? …

He says, “with one common purpose & … with only one desire.”

Paul realizes that the spiritual growth of each believer depends upon his or her relationship with the whole congregation.  Fighting together our faith will grow.  We need each other.  We can’t become all that God intends for us to be alone!  We’re not separate islands.  Paul writes … 


“All of you are Christ’s body, & each one is a part of it. … And so there is no division in the body, but all its different parts have the same concern for one another.  If one part of the body suffers, all the other parts suffer with it; if one part is praised, all the other parts share its happiness.” 

(1 Corinthians 12:25-27)


It’s essential that we’re united.  Jesus said,

“If a country divides itself into groups which fight each other, that country will fall apart.  If a family divides itself into groups which fight each other, that family will fall apart.” (Mark 3:24-25)


Plus, when we fight together, we aren’t afraid of the world out there, because we have brothers & sisters in the faith right beside us.


Paul says that when the life of a believer is “balancing” the specifications of the Gospel there’s a power that cannot be denied … only envied.  It’s so intense, so beautiful, that everyone outside is jealous because they’re not sharing in it. (The Acts 2:6)

This is a tremendous thought.  Think of it.  Our marriages, our family, 

our Church, our Christian friendships are the greatest & most significant testimony we have. (Mark 5:19) And others should witness that.  It should be evident.  My word, having God involved in our relationships has to make an impact on how we live … right?


Those differences center on the ministry of Jesus Christ & The Holy Spirit.  

Please hear this, Jesus is not way out there somewhere but is actively involved in our lives.  Paul writes …


“Your life in Christ makes you strong, & his love comforts you.  

You have fellowship with the Spirit, 

& you have kindness & compassion for one another.”


There ought to be an incredible fellowship among us.  We’re to show love toward one another. (1 John 3:11) We’re to display kindness & compassion. 

(1 Corinthians 13:4-6)


Allow me to probe here a little bit.  Has Jesus Christ in your life meant anything to you? … Have you responded to others on the basis of the way He loves you? … Do you see any evidence of The Holy Spirit in your life?” … 

Are you producing spiritual fruit, such as love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, humility, & self-control? (Galatians 5:22-23)


Relationships are fragile; they must be kept under special conditions, 

like good cheese or homemade ice cream.  Ignore those conditions & our relationships will “mold” or “melt” … 

which is what was happening to Euodia & Syntyche.


Rule #1 … be of the same mind.


Please understand this: followers of Jesus do not have to agree on everything.  We certainly can have differences of opinions.  

What matters is that we have the same objectives & targets. (Philippians 3:14) 

We’re all different. (1 Corinthians 12:18) It would be absurd to suggest that happily married husbands & wives should never differ; that parents & children would always think the same; that every one of us here agrees on everything.  That being said, however, we must have the same mind in that we pursue the same criteria for coming to a solution.

It may be a competitive world out there, but here in the Church … 

we’re on the same team, we’re in the same family, this is our safe haven.  

We leave our personal ambitions at the door & strive for unity.


Rule #2 … have the same love.


Have the same kind of love that Christ had for us.  

Love others as Christ loved us.  That’s what Jesus was talking about.

“As I have loved you, so you must love one another.”

Simple words … but who can carry this out?


The world has always agreed that love is what we need to solve our problems.  All the ugliness, the crime, the abuse, the violence, the broken relationships, 

the drug & pornography trafficking … all this crap would vanish if we truly learned & practiced what Jesus meant when He said … “you must love one another.”


So, how do we do it?  How do we truly love one another?”


The love that Jesus is talking about, the love which Scripture identifies as agape (ἀγάπη) or unconditional love … is a love that is rooted in the will, not in our emotions.  Now the very fact that Jesus has to command us “to love one another” … means that this kind of love must be practiced under the most adverse of circumstances.  


We don’t need to be commanded to love people who are attractive or generous or fun or kind or helpful. (Matthew 5:44-45) The people Jesus commands us to love are those who are unlovely, stingy, nasty, dull, selfish, or downright mean.  He’s talking about the people that we have a hard time liking & getting along with. 

They’re the individuals whose personalities clash with ours.


So, how are we supposed to stir up warm, fuzzy feelings toward such people?  Jesus’ answer … we don’t have to.  In fact, in most cases, 

we probably will never be able to.  Feelings aren’t the issue.

The issue is obedience to a commandment.  “You must love one another.”


Seek the good of other people, even people we don’t like.  

Be helpful to other people, even if they’re nasty in return.  

Be patient with other people & serve them, even if they never thank you.  

Agape love is a choice, not a feeling.


The commandment that Jesus gave is a prescription for empowering His followers to change the world.  And our Christlike love will be the means by which the world will be reached for Jesus.  

“If you have love for one another, 

then everyone will know that you are my disciples.” 


The evangelist, Henry Drummond, used a magnet & a piece of steel to illustrate Jesus’ command that we love one another as He loved us.  He said that if we take a piece of steel & attach it to a magnet, in time the magnetic properties of the magnet will be acquired by the piece of steel … 

& it, too, will be a magnet.


In the same way, if we dwell on His love for us … a love beyond our deserving, a love extended to us even while we were rebellious, a love given in spite of the ugliness of our sin (Romans 5:8) … then we will gradually acquire that kind of love.  The magnetic love of Jesus will become our nature,

just as it is His nature, & people will be attracted to Him because of it.


Rule #3 … be in full agreement.


Don’t take conflict lightly.  Conflict can be a spectator thing for just so long & then it becomes destructive.  Don’t fool with it.  

Paul says that these “rules” are “keepable” as long as we 

“don’t do anything from selfish ambition or from a cheap desire to boast.”


I love the way the Message Bible translates this verse.  

“Don’t push your way to the front; don’t sweet-talk your way to the top.

Put yourself aside, & help others get ahead.”


All too often we compete with people who are supposed to be on our team.  What are the ambitions of your life?  How are they driving you.

Are your objectives causing conflict?


Listen to what James writes about this.

“Where do all the fights & quarrels among you come from?  

They come from your desires (ambitions) for pleasure, 

which are constantly fighting with you.” (James 4:1)

We must examine our motives.  Why do we do certain things?  

Is it because of what’s in it for me?


Paul goes on, “Always consider others better than yourself.”  

Listen to that again.  This is a tough one.  “Always consider others better than yourself.”  Scripture doesn’t say that others are better …

we’re all on level ground in terms of our worth to God.


Paul commands us not to put people down … lift them up.  How? 

By treating them better than we would treat ourselves.

This is a radical concept.  Treat others better than ourselves … that’s what Scripture commands. (Matthew 7:12) And that’s the exact opposite of how our culture operates.  The world is full of people who think they’re better than everybody else.  We’ve elevated selfishness to an art form … 

a quality characteristic.  It’s all about me.


Paul is teaching that when it comes to dealing with others, begin by assuming that they are more important. (Luke 14:8) To be honest, that’s hard, 

& it’s only possible for those who have discovered their self-worth in Christ.


Humility is not thinking less of ourself … but thinking of our self less.  

Our focus isn’t on us … it’s on others.  

We are people centered … rather than self-centered.


Paul writes, “look out for one another’s interests.”

The word translated “look” (σκοποῦντες) is actually where we get our word “scope” … like a microscope or a telescope.  Both help us see things better.  We’re to “scope out,” pay attention to other people’s needs.


Listen again to the Message Bible translation.  

“Don’t be obsessed with getting your own advantage.  

Forget yourselves long enough to lend a helping hand.”


Want a model for this? … Use Jesus.  In Heaven He had everything … power, position, recognition. (Philippians 2:7) And He gave it all up in obedience to God, who wants us to be willing to do that too. (Matthew 16:24)


It’s impossible to live a lifestyle of unselfishness on our own.

It’s human nature to be selfish … to only look out for #1.  But Jesus wants us to live differently.  He wants us to develop a Christlike character.

These are the fragile conditions in which relationships grow.  

They work only when we’ve been touched by Christ’s love.


Paul tells us, “keep on working with fear & trembling to complete your salvation.” (Philippians 2:12) This is an ongoing process.  It’s a daily activity.


Last month, in “The Upper Room” devotional, was this story …


When Mark & Sheila moved into their new home, Sheila wondered about the neighbors.  Would they accept their children?  What about the dog?  She soon found out.  Shortly after moving in, their kids were playing in the backyard & their football sailed over the fence into the yard of the elderly man who lived next door.  When their son jumped the fence to get it, 

the man chased him out, swore at him, & told him that it better not happen again.  A few days later her dog was barking & Sheila went out to quiet him.  The man was waiting for her.  He told her that if she didn’t keep the dog quiet he would call the police.  Then he cursed again.  Sheila’s dander rose.  Her cheeks turned red.  Hot & angry words came to her mind … but she didn’t express them.  Instead, she prayed & began to think of ways to reach out to this man.  Later that day, while she was baking blueberry muffins, she made an extra batch.  Then, calling on God for courage, took a large plate of them to the man next door.  “I made these for you,” she told him.  He didn’t say much, but accepted the muffins.  And in the weeks that followed, 

Sheila continued to show kindness to him.  Gradually his attitude softened, 

& the day came, when he came to faith in Jesus.


The relationships we have in this world are extremely fragile.  

And we can’t escape them.  We’re not hermits living on an island.  

We are involved with multiple people every single day.  And not just those we come face-to-face with.  But on the telephone, on the computer, etc.


But if we put ourselves aside,

people will be able to see Jesus in us … which should be our goal. (John 3:30)

And they’ll know we are Christians by our love.


MARANA THA

 


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